A Time To Laugh – The Loys Move To Lynchburg

IMG_0007 IMG_0002There are times in life to weep and in much needed contrast, times to laugh. (Ecclesiastes 3:4) I’ve had my fair share of both.  The weeping ones are my least favorite, but they help to make the laughing ones ever so much more appreciated don’t you think?  Quite unexpectedly, a time to laugh arrived this very Monday morning.  The relief and joy it brought to my heart were much needed.

It started at 6:45 am.  Alarm goes off.  Husband jumps out of bed, excited for his first day of Med School.  He says, “Oh no! I forgot to find my belt last night!”  I should include here that we had just unloaded the entire contents of our 24′ moving truck Thursday night and had not made unpacking our bedroom a top priority.  In fact we never found his suit and he had to get one at Goodwill for the first day portraits!

The gritty sound of ripping tape off cardboard boxes abruptly broke the morning silence.  If there is one sound little Ruby Jane cannot stand, it is that sound.  She comes unglued.  She is wounded by that sound.  Undone.  True story, the day our moving van arrived in KC, I left Ruby Jane sleeping soundly at Grandmas house and went over two hours early before the moving help arrived to tape up all the boxes so she wouldn’t have to hear it!  It’s kind of hilarious in a “Wes Anderson movie” sort of way.

We never found the belt, but Ruby did wake up quite traumatized.  So off to school he went, stomach aflutter and ill fitting pants and all the hope of a new adventure freshly begun.

About 30 minutes later he called.  “I’ve got good news and I’ve got bad news.” His voice was merry but my stomach dropped, “School doesn’t start until tomorrow.  I’m a whole 24 hours early.”  A time to laugh.  Oh how we laughed!  Thank you, God! We so needed a good laugh.  The weight of it all was lifted, and we finally stopped for a minute to relax and enjoy this new season.

It will be hard and it will be long, but as Dr. Martin put it at Blake’s White Coat Ceremony Saturday, “take time to laugh…the days will be long but the years will go by quickly!”

Many friends and family have asked a lot of questions about what lies ahead for us.  Here is what we know.  Blake has two years of classes in Lynchburg, VA at Liberty University COM .  Then he has two years of clerkship where his learning/training will take place in a hospital.  We don’t know which hospital and we may have to move again for this part.  He will do several clinical rotations to get a better understanding of what area of medicine is the best fit for him.  After those two years, he graduates as a Doctor Of Osteopath and applies to work in a hospital as a paid resident under a D.O. or M.D. in the area of medicine he would like to practice.  Right now he thinks he would like to work in the E.R.  We know that could change and depends on what type of residency he gets into.  A residency can take anywhere from 2-7 years.  Yup, you read that right.

What will I do?  I will be at home parenting and making sure our pets heads aren’t falling off…(Dumb and Dumber reference)   I will continue to freelance design and I will try homeschooling the kids this year.  I can’t wait to get settled into our new place, make it all homey and start sewing and blogging again.  We’re excited to be Virginians.  We will be exploring the East Coast!  We have already begun by taking the girls to Sandbridge Beach for their very first swim in the ocean!  Here are some pictures of our first two weeks here.  They include Liberty University COM white coating ceremony, Ruby getting pink eye our first day here of course, first time at the beach, and our new townhouse move in day!

We miss our KC family and friends but we already love it here! Come see us!

-Andrea

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I took the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains picture from the patio at Blake’s school building.  I pray it reminds him everyday that our help is from the Lord who has brought us here.

1I lift up my eyes to the hills.
From where does my help come?
2My help comes from the LORD,
who made heaven and earth.

3He will not let your foot be moved;
he who keeps you will not slumber.
4Behold, he who keeps Israel
will neither slumber nor sleep.

5The LORD is your keeper;
the LORD is your shade on your right hand.
6The sun shall not strike you by day,
nor the moon by night.

7The LORD will keep you from all evil;
he will keep your life.
8The LORD will keep
your going out and your coming in
from this time forth and forevermore.

Psalm 121

My Top Two Graphic Design Resources….

I’m like a 100% sure that Creative Market is THE BEST thing that has ever happened to me graphic design wise. (Cue “I love technology…………but not as much as you you see!” from Napoleon Dynamite.) I want to be that designer that makes everything from scratch using my wacom tablet and my imagination. But alas, real life “gets in the way” and the MOST IMPORTANT WORK is of course asking me for pancakes and juice in the morning and needs clean laundry to wear and books read to them. So, until my littles aren’t so little anymore and life isn’t so full, I”ll leave the amazingness to the independent artists that make up the awesomeness that is Creative Market.  They have the latest and trendiest fonts, web site themes, graphic clip art, hand drawn illustrations, logo templates……..

The other best place to buy graphics is Etsy, OF COURSE!  Both of these sites are supporting real live independent makers!  Check out this collection of printables I was able to make for my job at the girlies school this week! I bought a package of cute clip art on Etsy from Graphic Grace Design. We are having a big growth spurt in our Classical Christian School and space is a big problem…The Lord has given our school some modular units that will be put together and remodeled this fall for more classroom space. So until that is finished, we will be in a “wilderness” period. That means driving my kids to THREE DIFFERENT CAMPUSES for school. I’ll be teaching at the Secondary Campus with The Boss Lady, The Doodle will be in 4th grade at the Elementary Campus and my sweet Hayler Bunkity will be starting Kindergarten at the temporary location. In an effort to communicate how this season will look my friend and PTF Coordinator came up with a great campaign to help everyone understand how awesome this is. Plus we could NOT EVEN help ourselves with all the cute teepees and adventure themed art at Hobby Lobby! So kudos to my friend Sara for the great idea and here are some Wilderness Prints available for your printing pleasure in my Etsy Shop. They would be great for a children’s room, homeschool room, boy’s nursery decor, or Sunday
School Room/Giveaway. Unlimited Personal Printing License for $5. I do ask that if you buy the pdf files, to please be respectful and don’t share the digital files. Every little bit helps 🙂

What’s a Design Board and Why Do YOU Need one?

Imagine going to Lowes with a $30,000 gift card……..You pick out all the things in the store you like and bring them home. Cabinets, countertops, various fans, pendant lights that strike your fancy, random favorite paint colors…I mean you just go to town.

When you get home and put it all up what is it going to look like? Will it create the look you want? Will it feel like home? Will it work for your family? Did they have everything you needed to create a cohesive space? Did those Octopus shaped cabinet pulls really go with your seeded glass pendants?

This is why you need a Design Board. Most women and men know what they want in a home, but getting there may be a challenging process. That’s why I make a design board for myself and my clients. We can visualize what everything is going to “do” together. We can see if you really want the “Farmhouse” kitchen or the “Mid Century Modern” living room before we spend all your money and you hate it. You can make your own. It’s as simple as searching the internet and stores for various items, then cutting and pasting or dragging and dropping them into a visual display. It’s a “google spreadsheet for interior design nerds” if you will.

To give you an example, here is a recent series of design boards I made for a client. They are helping this (sweet) family to formulate a plan with-in their budget to create the home they need for their family and friends, their job and ministry. It was such an honor and delight to help them and I enjoyed it swatch by swatch!

I also included a detailed shopping list of resources and service providers for their job. It was a win – win. They get what they want in their budget without having to hire someone to manage the entire process. Although I can do that for you if prefer:)

Happy Designing! -Andrea